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thememedaddy

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milkhoney531

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savesavva

some soft analogical out of nowhere <3

sorrowandacrow

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what-even-is-thiss

There’s still debate about split attraction on my dash why do you people even care

what-even-is-thiss

If someone identifies as a bisexual lesbian how does that affect your life? Like actually. Outside of your little online world what tangible difference is it making in your day to day? Some people have complicated relationships to sex and romance. I thought the whole point of the modern queer movement was for people to do as they please and be legally protected.

Yeah maybe you don’t get it. Maybe there’s some identities you’ll roll your eyes at. So? So? Why the hell do you care?

peanutmobile

Follow up question why do you all seem hellbent on only changing the definition of lesbian and no other sexuality. Maybe we wouldn't be causing discourse over it if you didnt use a label thats clearly not meant for you.

what-even-is-thiss

You know, I chose bi lesbians just like randomly without thinking too hard about it because there’s tons of different ways that split attraction can present itself and it has given me insight into just how angry people act towards bi lesbians.

This post was about split attraction in general. If someone isn’t romantically attracted towards men but is sexually attracted towards them or vice versa I think they deserve the language to talk about it.

The split attraction model has never been exclusive to the aro/ace community. Perhaps the aro/ace community popularized it but if split attraction works for you then idk why people insist upon getting angry about it.

I’m an asexual gay man. People get mad at me about that. People get mad at me for identifying as gay for any number of reasons. Because I’m also into non binary people, because I’m trans, because I’m asexual. You acting like this is only solely about bi lesbians is some severe tunnel vision and missing the point of this post.

Also a lot of people’s reactions to this post have been severely biphobic or aphobic and I’m getting sick of this.

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justablah56

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what-even-is-thiss

Once in a while I see someone on tumblr saying something like let people be horny you can’t stop people from having sex and I’m like yeah that’s true but it seems weird to be saying that on the horny fandom website let me check your blog and oh yeah you hate asexual people big surprise

what-even-is-thiss

If you see someone getting weirdly defensive about sex they might just be having a bad day but I’ve also found it useful to check their blog because a lot of times they seem to be under the impression that asexual people are single-handedly responsible for all sex based oppression or something

thevagabondexpress

When actually most sex-based opression comes from cis-allo people so we're really not who they should be targeting about this.

what-even-is-thiss

Asexual and sex averse people are hurt by the exact same systems that sexually active allo people are whether queer or not. Punching down or sideways at asexuals won’t make the cishets like you more.

A lot of people’s aphobia also gets directed towards sex averse people. I am personally an asexual person with a complicated relationship to sex and for me at least that’s very much connected to my asexuality. Saying that aversion to sex and asexuality need to be 100% separated erases a lot of people’s lives experiences. And for a very long time the asexual community has welcomed people who identify as asexual for any number of reasons whether that be purely attraction related reasons or because they don’t like sex or because they’re afraid of sex. We’re welcoming. We always have been. You can come and go as you please for any reason you like.

And before you tell me to research this community I was on AVEN. I’ve given informative lectures on this stuff. I lived through the crusade against asexuals during the 2016-2019 panic. I’ve been fighting the good fight on this stuff for over a decade and I have no personal gripe with you but I will not stand idly by while someone tries to ell me that sex aversion and asexuality don’t get to be connected.

Yes asexuals can be sex positive. Yes non asexuals can be sex averse. But by claiming that the two concepts can never be lumped together you are erasing history that I was personally there for.

sorrowandacrow

2h

canonically47

(human au) sanders sides queer hcs:

logan: demiromantic asexual gay, non-binary he/him

patton: aroace, transmasc he/him

roman: demisexual gay, boyflux he/him

remus: aroflux gay, agender it/they/he

virgil: aroaceflux gay, genderqueer he/it

janus: aroflux gay, non-binary he/him

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chocococo16

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purple-ladys-stuff

uncleasriel

excuse me I'mtearing up a bit

soft-caramel

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2h

satans-fluffy-kitten

Reading anything horror after listening to the Magnus Archives is a trip. The solutions seem so clear. Creepy child-murdering ghost in basem*nt? Cement. Animated bones? Cement. Woman coming out of fireplace where she was burned to death? Cement. Talk about a concrete solution.

lizard-queen-izzy

@initial-lime

initial-lime

CEMENT BAIBEE!!!!! Nothing beats cement, literally just pour cement on all your problems

magn-animously

My boss said I'm not allowed to do that to the customers ever again :(

sorrowandacrow

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catasters

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schistosomamansoni

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karokawwo

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only-cat-memes

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sillysides-memes

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cecilsrandomeverything

4h

mikewheelerfan2022

Get them all to 33.3% (help is allowed)

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Voting ended onApr 30

Reblogging would be a great help, but don’t feel pressured to

mikewheelerfan2022

Too much 3 at the moment y’all

kloonissmall

okay tumblr

thanook

happy 100.1% tumblr poll result tuesday

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ari-kari

4h

fandomlockedfan

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payasita

4h

foone

The thing neurotypicals tend not to understand about the ADHD brain is that it really only has two gears

I turn to the chalkboard and carefully write out

WORKIN' HARD

HARDLY WORKIN'

kaminarider

Much like a cars transmission getting stuck between gears the adhd brain can also access a secret mode called HORKLY WARDIN' that feels bad

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ari-kari

4h

frownyalfred

me, quietly whispering to the ao3 page of an author who doesn’t even know I exist: I am obsessed with you

somethingveryodd

me, whispering to the ao3 page of an author who hasn’t updated anything in four years: I think about you often and I hope you’re alright

azrielgreen

me, whispering to the ao3 page of an author who wrote one life altering banger and nothing else: I hope your pillow is cool and your skin is clear and you find money in a forgotten jeans pocket

jezebelgoldstone

me, whispering to every single person on this post: please leave one singular comment saying literally any of that

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justablah56

4h

charlesoberonn

The default length of pasta is designed to fit on a supermarket shelf, not to be the best length for cooking/eating.

Feel free to break it to any length you want (don't let the Italians know I said this)

charlesoberonn

Make sure I fit in the pot at least.

lilyyy63

Shorter pasta could definitely fit on a store shelf. Longer pasta however...

Free yourself of corporate interests and demand comically and inconviently long pasta

charlesoberonn

Pasta so long it can't fit in your car and you gotta tie it to the roof. Pasta so long you gotta cook it outside because your ceiling is too low.

clumsysprings

I think space filling pasta would be the best of all worlds. Easy to fit on shelves, long, and fits in the pot without breaking!

Good luck manufacturing it, but I think it could be done by extrusion and chopping, but I don't know if it'd be spaghetti still

charlesoberonn

Something like this?

charlesoberonn

But in a little over 4 months it's gonna be m

charlesoberonn

This post gains more and more notes as we approach the day

brightlotusmoon

It's gonna be

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